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2008/11/16

男同士のコミュニケーション

昨晩、いきつけのお店で、ある方のお祝いをしていたのですが

常連客同士で、殴り合いのケンカが始まり、最後は血だらけで、警察まで

でる始末・・・。

 

でも・・・暴力を賛成するわけじゃないけれど、そこにいた元すし屋の大将が

ぽつりと、「おまえら、いいな。うらやましいよ。俺はケンカ相手も死んじまったし

仲がいいんだな、」と。

 

元々、2人は、幼稚園からの幼馴染。最近も、あることに関して、お互い

言いたいことがあって、それが原因のようです。

 

片方は、昔ボクシングをやっていた人なので、一発浴びると確実にのびます。

体も、でかく、まともには戦えません。が、そこは、友人同士、もちろん、手加減してやったようで・・・。

その彼が 「どうだ、すっきりしただろう。俺、殴ってすっきりしただろう。」と

苦笑いしながら、口元が腫れたまま、話しておりました。

もう一人は、普通のサラリーマンでどちらかといえば、文科系の方。初めて、人を殴った、と。

口元から、血を流しながら話をしておりました。

 

2人にしかわからないものが、あるのでしょうが、どことなく、晴れ晴れした感じ

を受けたのは、私だけだったのでしょうか。

 

暴力反対ですよ。もちろん。でも、こういった男同士のコミュニケーションって

なくなってしまいましたよね。ただ、40もとうに過ぎてやることでも、ないかもしれません。

これはお互いをよく理解した上での、出来事。

最近の若い人が、これをやったら、本当に事件になってしまいます。

 

しかし、お祝いをされている人が、すっかり取り残されていました。

もっとも、このおじさんも昔はケンカっぷしがあって、今回のこのことを冷静に見ておりました。

「ああ、大丈夫だ、殴りが浅いな。大丈夫、ちゃんと友達を気遣って、浅くやっているよ

あいつは。」と。

 

理屈抜きの男同士のコミュニケーションのお話でした。

(少し過激でしたか?)

 

 

 

 

 

 

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